We all feel frustrated at times when things do not go as we anticipate or expect.
We become especially disheartened when we wish for someone who's close to us to behave in a certain way.
The problem is that we do not often express what we specifically want to experience.
We go on living life believing that the other person knows what to do, but chooses not to do it.
That of course leads to nothing but trouble - a continuing cycle of suffering.
Instead of wishing for things to happen while remaining angry or flustered, why not take the reins into your hands and actually DO something that will bring you closer to your desired outcome?
Here are some suggestions:
1) Write a note - elaborate and explain how you feel. You don't have to be a novelist just write your message of love. It will make anyone feel special.
2) Be present - when you are speaking with someone, be with them: don't think about what you need to do next or keep glancing at your phone as if it's more important than the conversation you're having right now.
3) Listen actively - notice not just the words that are being said. There's a lot more going on than that. Search for what is actually trying to be communicated to you.
4) Speak from your
heart - express what you want to say clearly: Say, "I feel that ... "
5) Finally, Just Be Yourself!
Apologize if you unintentionally hurt someone, but don't make excuses for WHO you are.
Life is short; Don't wait to be happy, create your own moments of happiness now.
Give yourself a timeline; invest your maximum effort in order to achieve your goals. When you do your very best it will become a habit.
Say what you mean, mean what you say.
Do what you love, and you'll love what you do.
Thank you for taking the time to read 💕
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