HOW TO HEAL A WOUNDED HEART

If we insist on holding on to grudges, we may become so entangled in our past wounds that we completely forget about enjoying the present. 

We get hurt and believe it will last a lifetime. 

We may feel helpless, like there isn't anything we can do about how we feel.

But is that true?

What do we miss along the way?

What do we lose sight of?

The truth is, we are missing out on life - everything about living becomes jeopardized, from our health to our relationships, all the way to our overall success in life. 

If we don't get past our pain and hurt, we invariably tend to carry it with us where ever we go - it becomes part of who we are. 

Once we move to a place of forgiveness, we can finally heal and begin to live. 

We were all created by love, our job is to preserve it within us. 

Set yourself free from the confines you have built around your heart, and be free to love again.

DARE TO LIVE WITHOUT LIMITS

If you do not believe that there is more to life other than what you can see through your physical eyes, consider the following:

When a baby is gently cradled in its mother's womb, does he have any way of knowing what is happening beyond the confines of his mom's belly?

Not really!

We can never rely on our five senses.

There is so much more than that ...

We may not be able to point out exactly what we know, but we can still feel it in our "bones". 

Whether we believe that there is something "beyond" or not, staying curious enables us to consider possibilities which are far beyond the physical limits of our sight. 

The more we to increase the level of our awareness and areas of interest, the more we can discover - about ourselves and the world around us. 

Be willing to learn more, go beyond the familiar and safe - reinvent yourself. 

Dare more - live more 

LETTING GO ...

Let go of the stories you've been telling yourself ... the stories of not having what you want out of life. 

Let go of shame and anger and all else that has been holding you back.

Let go of the illusion.

Who is really in control of your life? 

Let go of wanting and start having! 

You are a magnificent being, capable of everything your mind can possibly imagine.

Everything is already there in the universe, waiting for you in suspended animation.

All you need to do, is just let go..

HOW CAN I BE SUCCESSFUL

Where does success come from?

Successful people generally believe that they had created their own mile stones and success in life.

People who view themselves as unsuccessful, often think that they have no luck ...

Does luck have anything to do with success, or, is it what we actually DO that makes us thrive? 

Success doesn't just show up on our doorstep!

When we invest our time and energy, when we implement the resources available to us, more doors open and more opportunities show up as if from nowhere. 

We have to be prepared and willing to take advantage of them.

We have to work hard, believe in ourselves and have confidence in our ability to succeed. 

The more faith we have  in our abilities, the less we rely on luck.  

We can all be lucky, we just have to remember that first we need to work at it!

HOW DO I CREATE MY OWN LIFE

We each have our own unique way of viewing reality. 

We cannot help but have a subjective way of seeing things ...

We cannot judge or criticize anyone, because we have no way of knowing what their exact circumstances or why they choose to say or behave the way that they do. 

If we believe that there isn't anything random, we can therefore accept, that any situation, person or place that we are encountered by, is there to serve us on some level. 

For example, if I see someone struggling in some way, perhaps that means that there's an opportunity for me to help - bring some light... 

If I happened to be in the presence of two people who are quarreling, I do not take sides or judge. 

Instead, I ask myself; "I wonder how I can bring peace between these two..." Because I know there's a reason to why I am there...

Once I see myself as an active participant in creating my own life, I do not "pick apart" myself or others. Instead, I take responsibility by monitoring MY behavior not anyone else's way of conducting themselves.

When I pass judgment instead of taking control, it is like I am underestimating the universe's grand plan to assist me on my journey. 

We were all put on this earth to be creators. No one assigned us to point out the wrong doings of others. 

Our main job is to bring Light (love,peace,compassion, etc) into everything we say and do. 

HOW TO CHANGE THE WAY I FEEL

Reality is entirely based upon our interpretation of it.

Once we are locked in our understanding, we have no choice but to see only what we see. 

The bad news is that it's the interpretation that causes us the anxiety not the actual thing that happened.

The good news is that we CAN change what we think, feel and do.

Life in itself has no meaning, it only has the meaning we choose to assign to it. 

"Life is hard, life is beautiful "- our interpretation - 

Here's a tool you can use: the moment you catch yourself interpreting anything ask yourself these 4 questions:

1- Is it true?

Can I be 100% certain that my interpretation is true?

2- Does my interpretation make me happy or sad?

3- How else can I see this situation?

4 - which one will I choose?

In essence, we are asking the mind to expand itself, so we can begin to embrace other possibilities.

Once we see the situation, place, or person differently, generally the new interpretation will make us feel better. 

Then we can ask ourselves: do I want to go with the old interpretation  that caused me stress or do I want to go with the new interpretation? 

Do I want to walk around angry blaming the whole world for the way I feel?

It may seem odd at first, because we have been thinking the same way, sometimes, even for decades ...

However, holding grudges and feeling badly about anything is not conducive to having a happy and fulfilling life.

NO ONE except ourselves is responsible for the way we feel! 

MASTER YOUR DESTINY

Through confronting our biggest fears and deepest frustrations with bravery at heart, we gain forgiveness to ourselves and others.  

Loving is easy, compassion comes freely, through liberating hardship and disappointment.         

Choosing to make peace with our painful past, empowers us to look forward to a better future.               

With the expansion of our inner being, we reconnect effortlessly with our creator, empowering us to safely continue on our journey.

We vividly see our visions of success coming to fruition - finally we internalize the timeless truth - we are the masters of our destiny.

We attain endless bliss, and contentment beyond belief, while continuing to evolve and lead our lives piece by piece ~

THE FEAR FACTOR

It's not about the fear, it's in the way we interpret it. 

People fear making mistakes or doing things wrong, right?

Have you experienced this thing you are fearful of?

If so, why are you afraid?

How can you fear something that you have already experienced ?

Where is the fear stemming from?

If you said you are going bungy jumping today, that would be understandable, but why have a fear on something you had done before?

Maybe your fear is coming because of the way you are thinking about it?

In order to not allow fear to paralyze us, we must walk through fear - not around it or avoid it. 

Then you can begin to accept that there may be another opportunity that you may have not considered before. 

Next time you feel fear about anything, ask yourself: what is the opportunity I am most excited about right now?

Once you ask this question it will take your mind on to a different track. Because when we are in a state of fear, the reality is that there is an opportunity right under our noses, that we aren't aware of.

The question itself takes us on an entirely different experience.

Suddenly you find many opportunities to be excited about - shift your focus.

THE SECERT TO HAPPINESS IS ...

Each day is an opportunity to find joy 

Make up your own joy, especially during those dark times when it feels like everything is falling apart and you need to feel alive again.  

Remind yourself that even though it may seem like there's no hope and you've made too many mistakes, you always have a chance to make things better again.  

You may have lost a round or more, but that doesn't mean you've lost your place in the game of life. 

Do not give in to the illusion that it's the end of the world, but rather that it's an opportunity to improve and do things better next time. 

Find out what inspires you and create new ideas so you can always have energy to do more.

The best investment you can ever make is in your happiness and well-being.

A day without joy is like living without breathing - happiness is the oxygen of life.

The quickest way to find happiness is to create it for someone else - always works best!

If you are reading these lines, surely you can find at least one reason to be happy NOW!

HOW TO SOLVE MY PROBLEMS

Do you want to solve your problems?

Is what you're doing now helping you? 

If not, why do you keep doing it?

It's not about the event that happened or the person you are having an issue with - you can't  change what had occurred ...

You need to realize that the REAL problem is YOU!

Why?

Because nothing will change in your life until YOU do! 

You can grumble and moan, complain and suffer, until you decide to actually do something about the way you feel! 

No tips, no strategy, no product and no information will ever help you overcome or undo your problems.

Until you accept them, learn from them and finally do something different to change your current situation.

If you don't, you will repeat the same experiences over and over again... 

Nothing will change Until you YOURSELF is different!

When you get that, you'll stop running around aimlessly. 

It's never about any single problem you may have, it's  about changing your  relationship with it.

WHEN YOU CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK AT THINGS, THE THINGS YOU LOOK AT CHANGE!  

HOW TO INCREASE LIFE FORCE ENERGY

Success will come to you when you stop daydreaming and begin taking action. 

We live in a world of action, not a world of futile speech - to get ahead in life you have to do, not just talk! 

Take your creative energy, your thought, or idea and put it into ACTION.

Make it into something tangible, something that people can grasp and interact with - write it down, record it, create a model - put it in a physical form.

How else will you find out whether your idea is good? 

Unless you take the chance and give it a shot, you'll probably never come upon the answer.

Don't question what you already KNOW!

Don't question your ability to know YOURSELF.

The answers are already there, within you - it's only a question of REMEMBERING.  

Release the restrictions, constrictions, entanglements, self doubt, and negative mind talk - let it all go ...

Give yourself permission to re-claim your sovereignty, your Divinity - you know there's more to you than meets the 

eye ...

Be open to what comes through to you. 

Be open to the flow that you already are. 

Increase your vital, life force energy - release it to an active, natural flow. 

And the rest, the rest will fall into place.

LIFE IS AN INSIDE JOB

Do not be tempted to believe that other people or events in your life, have control over your reality - you are the sole decision maker.

Do not let anything other then accurate information be offered.

Be clear and determined as to what you want to achieve or accomplish.

Your attitude about yourself and your life, is what matters most!

Create a loving, respectful, encouraging, relationship with yourself. 

Life is an inside job: how you think, feel, respond, react and believe creates your life.

Focus on your goal but be flexible on how it will be manifested.

As long as you stay true to yourself and your path, the universe will guide you to your destination. 

THE STORY OF CREATION

And then God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. 

And God saw that the light was good. Then he separated the light from the darkness. God called the light “day” and the darkness “night.”

What if everything that happens to you, was actually pre-planned? 

What if you and me and the rest of the people in the world are here for a reason, a specific purpose?

What if this whole universe is like a mammoth machine, and each of us played a vital part for "this machine" to work properly?

What if we all believed that we are ONE??

Would you have a bigger sense of responsibility for your very existence?

Would you "mind" your mind more?

Would you be more mindful of your thoughts and feelings?

Would you be more considerate of others, realizing they are just like you, not better and not worse?

Take a moment and ponder ...

How does all this relate to you?

Who would you be if the above metaphor had been the truth?

The real question is what are you going to do with it? How can this information change or improve your life?

Give yourself the time to enjoy the extraordinary process of finding the self ... and with each layer uncovered, new wisdom will come forth - in the end you will come out upgraded. 

LAW OF ATTRACTION

Invite the law of attraction into your life - CREATE A VISION BOARD!

Begin creating the life you envision TODAY!

Honor yourself for your sincerity and courage to be just who 

you are - you deserve to be HAPPY! 

YOU CAN DO IT - I Can Help!

FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM

Forgiveness doesn't mean you approve of the wrong in the past, whether it had been self inflicted or done to you by others. 

Who is for forgiveness for and what do we gain by it? 

Forgiveness is for YOU - it  frees you from the shackles of the past, so you can move forward with your life.  

You can't do anything to change what once happened, so you might as well accept it. 

Some form of the pain will probably be a part of you forever - you can choose to live in perpetual pain by reliving the circumstances, or you can choose to let go, learn from it and grow. 

Continued suffering, just doesn't make any sense. 

Thinking of a painful past, is robbing you of the present moment - from the real you. 

You are NOT your anger, you are NOT your resentment, you are NOT your pain - identifying with these emotions will only cause you harm.

When you finally forgive, things won't always end up exactly the way you want, but at least you've done what you could, and it's no longer upon you. 

You have done your part - you've released yourself - now, you are free. 

SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO JUMP

Your life begins where your comfort zone ends! 

There's no other way of going about it - in order to achieve a happy and fulfilling life; the kind of life that makes you grow and expand beyond your expectations, you must "jump in the water" and start swimming.

Staying in your limited, constraining "cubical", won't get you very far!

However, once you begin making your way in the seemingly "foreign pond", you will soon discover that it wasn't as bad as you thought it would be.

Take all your past experiences, learn from them, and use this knowledge to do better next time. 

Increase the possibility of something great happening in your life, take the initiative - move forward with confidence.

Don't sit around waiting for something to happen, things don't just happen on their own ...

Do not underestimate the power of taking one small step in the direction of your dreams.

Sometimes that's all it takes, one step ....

Take action - no matter how small - the universe will step up and start shifting circumstances to your favor.