FORGIVENESS IS THE KEY TO FREEDOM

We all make mistakes, moments when we tell ourselves,"how could I have messed up so badly??!!"

Sometimes it feels like we have reached the end of the road - as if there is no turning back!

We hate and despise ourselves while staying in a state of self blame which then becomes an ongoing loop of anger and depression. 

Similarly, we tend to not forgive those who have hurt us; There's no forgiveness in our hearts, there is no mercy.

Where does it come from? Why do we repeatedly encounter times when we are the ones who get hurt? Maybe it's because we are not able to forgive ourselves ...

Why not learn to forgive? Is it better to keep punishing ourselves and carry the burden of hurt, this poison inside us, and continue to pay the price for the rest of our lives? 

Is that the best option for us, to keep resentment toward those who had wronged us? Is there any benefit in that? 

From where can we draw the power to forgive, firstly ourselves and others? 

When we forgive, we are not doing anyone a favor - We are accepting and approving ourselves.

The answer lies in the Holy Bible. When Moses went up to the mountain, the people lost their faith and built the Golden Calf. 

In the end, God forgave us in spite of our terrible transgression.  

What does that teach us? That we also have the ability to forgive ourselves and others. No matter how big our mistake may have been, we can never change God's mind about us.

He will never turn His back on us because he loves us unconditionally- his love is Divine and cannot be earned. 

Therefore, there is no despair in the world - it's an illusion. 

The thought of Creation is "for the betterment of its creatures" - There is no such thing as making a mistake that cannot be forgiven; It's never too late. 

Instead of withstanding tremendous guilt, mourning and grief, it is better we learn to tell ourselves; "Okay, it happened, what can I do now?"

We have free will - We can say; "That's right I messed up, but I am the Son/Daughter of God. He created me and He'll show me how to make amends. 

When we transcend and move forward it allows us to find the right path. We need to let it go inside, have mercy - be Godlike. 

No matter what, we must always keep in mind that everything can change for the better - we can train ourselves to think differently; We can choose love. 

The Universe is ready and available to give us the power we need to change our ways. 

We can be truly free only when we connect with the healing power of forgiveness.

These are important steps in life to find our ultimate peace of mind. If you need any help to achieve this goal please allow me the opportunity to work with you. 

Love & Blessings 

Yours Estee 💟

TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

When was the last time you've asked yourself ״what is it that I really want"?

The first step in doing so is to look at your life deeply and start to explore; Get to know who you really are. Perhaps it will be more beneficial to stop sweeping your concerns under the rug and start being honest with yourself.

There is no other way to come closer to your true desires; No other way to reach happiness and success in life.

Accept your reality, become aware of the changes that need to be made and move on with your life. 

In order to facilitate and implement changes, you need to identify what works for you and what does not - you need to recognize the 'issues' in order to work on them. 

It may take time to understand what the heart already knows - when you accept yourself as you are, you are ready to begin taking responsibility.

Once you finally mature, you will be able to stop blaming the environment for your troubles, realizing it renders you as powerless. 

You stop handing the control of your life over to an external source; You know that you are responsible for what happens to you.

You gain clarity about what your wants and needs are, and begin creating a vivid vision of your goals; Building a specific plan of action will ultimately lead you to the direction in which you want to go. 

Assume you are involved in an intimate relationship that had lost its life... You are facing a fork in the road; Do I stay or do I go. You can say; "That's it I've had it! I'm done trying to make things better!! I want out!"

Or you can ask; "Have I truly done everything in my power to make things better", unequivocally, with no regret or remorse. 

Ask yourself; what went wrong?  What are the needs that are no longer being met. What am I unwilling to give/receive? 

What can you add as opposed to blaming in order to improve your part of the bargain; Put emphasis on your strengths and fortify your weak points. 

You must never forget that improvement is constant and unchanging, therefore you must do all you can to supersede your current position in life or circumstance in order to grow. 

 

Be free to choose at any moment who you want to be in your life and in your relationships, as they set the stage and lay the foundation for your happiness. 

What kind of person are you in your relationships; are you attentive, supportive and loving? Or do you get upset easily, frustrated and too quick to judge? 

We can not always have control over the circumstances in life, but we always have the freedom to choose how to respond to them.

Keep in mind that your ultimate goal is to be better tomorrow than you are today, do all that you do with a smile - enjoy the journey.

If you need additional help to implant this process, please don't hesitate to contact me at any time. 

Love & Blessings 

Estee 💟

LISTEN TO YOUR INNER VOICE

Make your life easier; Listen to your inner voice. 

Allow yourself to be empowered by your internal guidance. 

Go into your heart and ask: 

Am I following my true path in life? Am I at least stepping onto that road right now? 

FEEL the answers coming through the sensations in your body. 

The message is there, within you, waiting to be discovered. 

All you need to do is ask and as if by magic a shift will occur.

You will have the ability to creatively solve and find answers to many challenges in life. 

Learn how to ask and allow the ideas to stream to you effortlessly, naturally, freely; As they are intended to be.

It is a built in, Divine system to help you empower yourself to become a change maker - USE IT! 

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Love & Blessings

Yours Estee 💟

SELF WORTH IS VITAL TO YOUR HAPPINESS

How's your self worth doing these days? 

Are you not giving yourself enough positive reinforcement because you're too busy searching for your faults? 

Perhaps you need to cultivate the relationship you have with yourself. 

If you want to be functioning at your best, at optimum level, you'll need to do a little "house cleaning."

Discard anything that isn't contributing to your growth and continued evolvement into a better friend, spouse, sibling, human being - a better version of yourself. 

Talk to yourself, understand what you are doing and why you are doing it. 

You deserve to invest this time to love and care for yourself. 

Here are 10 suggestions to increase your sense of self value; 

1 - Loving yourself unconditionally, even if you said or did something you regretted later. 

2 - Don't be hard on yourself; Learn to let go - forgive yourself and others - life's too short to hold on to grudges. 

3 - Become aware and grateful for all the goodness and blessings in your life. 

4 - Face your fears; It's the only way to overcome them and free yourself from bondage. 

5 - Focus on your attributes/strengths and do your best to improve; Learn new skills, expand your interests and knowledge. 

6 - Set boundaries; Learn to say no to people and situations that don't move you towards the person you want to become.

7 - Honor yourself and others; be kinder than necessary. 

8 - Celebrate your successes; Reward yourself for your accomplishments.  

9 - Speak up for yourself; Don't be afraid to stand up for what's important to you. 

10 - Be a good friend; Help others - you're actually helping yourself.

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Wishing you a wonderful day full of love and abundance 🌹

Love & Blessings

Yours Estee 💟 

LIVING A LIFE THAT MATTERS

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Your starting point bears no importance; It is not the determining factor whether or not you'll succeed in life. 

The question is, what will you do with what you have, and how will you leverage it to work for you not against you. 

Bottom line, you don't have to have much to be happy, rather it is more important that you are  able to build and create your life the way you want it to be. 

Abundance, richness, beauty, fulfillment and inner peace are derived from appreciation; Feeling blessed and grateful for everything you  have - nothing should ever be taken for granted. 

There's no guarantee that tomorrow you'll still possess what you have today. 

Focus on what is important and valuable to you, give your attention to what contributes to your progression in life, and let go of what holds you down.

If you want to lead a happy and healthy life, you need to create a control system that will ensure you'll achieve peak performance at all times. 

It begins with your thoughts and ends with actions. 

Live a life that matters; It doesn't happen by accident. It's not a matter of circumstance - It's your CHOICE! 

Please feel free to message me any comments or questions. I welcome your thoughts and feelings about this post. 

Love & Blessings 

Yours Estee 💟

YOU ARE NOT YOUR MISTAKES

So what if you make a mistake??

Do you know someone who doesn't think they made the wrong choice at some point in their lives?

Actually, it only counts as a mistake, if you have not learned from it and repeat the same behavior. 

If you are under the assumption that you can always be fault free, you're fooling yourself. 

You are bound to say the wrong thing or do something you'll regret later - It's not a question whether it will happen or not, but rather when. 

The only thing you can do now, is accept things as they are, learn, correct, plan for the future and go on. 

Uncover the hidden meaning in all interactions; Use every experience as an opportunity to promote yourself.

Each and every occurrence makes a difference and changes things. There will be difficulties along the way. You can complain, but it is not helpful in any way.

Life goes on continuously;Take an active part in what is happening around you, and connect to the natural flow. 

If you want to control the reality of your life and minimize mistakes as much as possible, you must begin to think, speak and act like the Creator - you have the power to create your reality. 

Thank you for visiting, if you have any questions or comments please don't hesitate to contact me at any time. 

Love & Blessings

Your Estee 💟