Forgiveness doesn't mean you approve of the wrong in the past, whether it had been self inflicted or done to you by others.
Who is for forgiveness for and what do we gain by it?
Forgiveness is for YOU - it frees you from the shackles of the past, so you can move forward with your life.
You can't do anything to change what once happened, so you might as well accept it.
Some form of the pain will probably be a part of you forever - you can choose to live in perpetual pain by reliving the circumstances, or you can choose to let go, learn from it and grow.
Continued suffering, just doesn't make any sense.
Thinking of a painful past, is robbing you of the present moment - from the real you.
You are NOT your anger, you are NOT your resentment, you are NOT your pain - identifying with these emotions will only cause you harm.
When you finally forgive, things won't always end up exactly the way you want, but at least you've done what you could, and it's no longer upon you.
You have done your part - you've released yourself - now, you are free.
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