What determines what occurs in my life?
My reaction - it all depends on my emotional responses that are actually related to my own history.
The problems begin with the way I choose to respond.
Life is full of changes, challenges, and endless disturbances - and each of us copes differently.
Some people develop, the "Teflon Effect" - nothing sticks - no matter what happens to them, they are always cheerful.
And there are also those people who just "invite" the problems and troubles - they are certain someone did something to them: they did to me, they took
from me ..
They are not taking responsibility for what happened to them in the past. Therefore, they continue to produce, throughout, the same kind of experiences.
When a person does not take responsibility for his actions, he experiences a certain kind of blindness.
He doesn't notice that in fact he is living in the dark. He lives with pain that has been carrying with him - unable to release it.
It all depends on the way you interpret what happens to you - in essence, you are "inviting" the experiences to come to you.
You can hate everyone and blame everyone for the darkness that you have created.
However, it's just like applying a band-aid to settle your wound - all the disorders originating in pain and darkness - the wound will not heal and continue bleeding.
One's inability to break free from the symptom - the very reason the disconnection from the light has occurred - causing him to remain in the dark.
As a result, he puts the blame on everyone but himself.
All the interruptions I am experiencing are the result of being disconnected from the Light, from Source, from who I really am.
One must realize, that the current problems he is experiencing, are in fact a chronology of things he had not yet addressed.
If you don't deal with the real problem - you will continue chasing your own tail.
The solution lies in awareness - identify the response - do not be tempted to blame 'the situation' or another person, for being the cause of your pain and discomfort.
Focus deeply inside and find which emotion it was that triggered you - what brought you to respond as you did.
Search inwardly until you find the first time you felt that same emotion.
When doing this inner search, often what is revealed to us, is an emotion that comes from an old pain. Possibly with someone in our past.
If we are not aware of that emotion/old pain, and we don't treat the root of the problem, throughout our lives we project our pain on every person who pushes the same buttons.
Other people are never the problem - they are the catalyst that brings things to the surface.
No one can awaken something in us, that has not been there before.
Once you connect to your own darkness, deal with it and inject it with Light, suddenly the problem disappears, and with it all your undesired future responses.
Right here is the work; we are to turn every dark occurrence into a bright light in our lives - we had turned the bitter to sweet, when taking responsibility for our thoughts and feelings, and struggle bravely, facing the real problem.
Bottom line, who created the darkness? I have. Who can make it disappear from my life?
Bingo! Only me!
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