Free yourself to love again ~
When we're not able to forgive it means we are still in the 'blame mode'.
We blame someone for "doing" something to us or for not providing something that we are lacking.
We stay in perpetual pain.
We feel shameful, angry, frustrated, and sad all because we don't take responsibility for how we feel.
In essence, we are rejecting ourselves and giving someone other than us power over our feelings - we're left completely disempowered.
Why not begin with simply loving yourself?
Why not say to yourself, if it's love I'm after, I should firstly provide it for myself.
Why not try to look at things from the other person perspective?
More than often, holding a grudge is a direct result of miscommunication.
Why not put your ego aside, and instead operate from your heart?
Why not rid yourself of all negative feelings?
Think about it: you are doing a lot more damage to yourself than you might think..
You are causing yourself bitterness and much stress.
Forgiveness, first and foremost, frees YOU.
It gives you the freedom to feel what you want to feel, instead of what you are "forcing" yourself to go through.
If this sounds familiar, take a moment and write your feelings down; better yet, why not call the person and talk things through?
The longer you keep your ill feelings to yourself, the more you suffer..
Don't allow yourself to be governed by stress, make room in your heart, raise your vibration to feelings of love and free yourself today ~
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